Saturday, June 5, 2010

What you May not Think!

FYI: In this Blog I will get very Personal!

'The List' says:

"Find me a Man"

I say "Man" for a reason. I am gay, and very proud. It is my life; I am going to live it for me and me only.

But I am not like every other gay man in the world....


I do not reinforce the gay stereotype. I don't shave my body 10 times a month. I'm not skin and bones. I don't wear tight clothes...

I do not and will never attend the parties known as "Gay Pride." I do not need to show off how proud I am of my lifestyle. I have better things to do then to do that...

I love clothes, but I also love fixing things----I am almost finished restoring several bar stools for my mom.

Most straight men would think "Oh...your Gay! Well I don't do anything like that!"
They assume that every gay man wants to be in bed with you. A lot of gay men are like that, but I know the boundaries. Yes, you are hot! But I would just like to be friends with you, that is all. Have fun; just two guys. Even though I may have a crush on you and would love to see you naked, but I know the boundaries.

I have a crush on my straight, married, hunky neighbor mechanic. Does he know: Not yet. Would I want to see him naked: Yes! I am an artist and would like to expand from landscapes and try people. Especially people naked. But it would not go anywhere farther than taking pictures of his body. ( I still have to ask him too).

I am monogamous, which means only one partner at a time. I just don't see why I have to have another guy in my life, if I already have one.

I may have not had sex, yet, but I want it to mean something. I don't want to just find a random guy and do it just to satisfy it. (I still haven't even kissed a guy; maybe once but that was in my dreams)

I don't believe in Marriage. I don't need to be a piece of paper or a law. I can be committed to anything with my heart (LOVE).

I want to "Find me a Man"

I want him to be a guy, Have hair in places, doesn't shave for several days. Can fix things. Who is monogamous. Wants a family like I want too. He's honest, trustworthy, adventurous, funny, spontaneous, and everything else you can think that is good.

But I do know that he isn't perfect.

Ry!